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    Home » parenting » Practicing Independence Skills - Get Ready for K Through Play

    Practicing Independence Skills - Get Ready for K Through Play

    Published: Jun 26, 2013 · Modified: May 3, 2022 by Vicky

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    It's time for week 3 of Get Ready for K Through Play! If you joined us for the last two weeks, then you know that this is an 8 week series with some of my favorite bloggers that will give you all the tools you need to prepare your child for Kindergarten in fun, hands-on ways. Each week, we are going to focus on a different Kindergarten readiness skill. This week we are focusing on Practicing Independence Skills that will help your child to be more independent in Kindergarten and at home. I will share some ideas for chores for kids.

    Independence skills your child needs. Think your child is too young to help around the house? Think again.

    I have found that a great way to help kids with practicing independence skills is to start at home. There are so many things kids can do for themselves at home. Having them practice being a productive member of the household will boost their confidence in this area and allow them to feel more capable as they enter the Kindergarten classroom.

    Kids are natural born helpers. They love to be useful and feel big. But so many times, we as parents will do things for them that they can do themselves. I am guilty of this. I find myself doing things for my child because it's just quicker and if I do it, I know it will be done right. But this is no way to build a child's confidence in their ability to take care of themselves. I have a come up with a number of chores for kids that I think most four/five year olds should be able to do independently and we have starting working on these skills as we get ready for K.

    Set their spot at the table
    This doesn't have to be anything elaborate, just a plate, utensils, napkins and a cup. Since my kids use kids plates and cups there is no danger of anything breaking.

    Setting the table
    Child doing chores

    Clear the table
    This includes throwing any leftover food in the trash and placing their dish and cup in the sink.

    Kids helping out

    Placing dirty clothes in the washer
    In the past my kids would just take off their clothes at the end of the day and leave them on the floor of the bathroom. And then I would pick them up and bring to the washer if you can believe that. Well, no more!

    Chores for Kids

    Sort clothes from the dryer 
    This can be a fun game for the kids as they try and match up socks and check the sizes of clothes and put them in piles - size 4 for the twins and size 3 for their sister.

    Easy chores

    Cleaning up their toys and putting them in the correct spot 
    My kids usually clean up before bed, but their idea of cleaning up is just getting toys out of sight and shoving them wherever there is room. Since we have been working on being more independent, I have labelled more areas in the playroom and asked them to return their toys to the proper spots.

    Making their bed
    This is a great habit to get into each morning. It's something that a four or five year old can do. It doesn't need to be done perfectly or how you would do it. If I see a blanket spread out and a pillow and stuffed animals on the bed, I consider it a win.

    Making a bed

    Getting their own art supplies and putting them away
    They will be doing a lot of this at Kindergarten so why not start at home. If you have a low shelf you can organize art supplies in a basket so kids can reach them. When they are finished working, they can place them back where they came from.

    Hopefully, by the end of the summer, your child will have mastered these skills at home. Just think of how independent they will be feeling. They will be fully prepared to exhibit that same independence in the classroom as they make the transition to Kindergarten. So get them practicing independence skills today.

    Be sure to visit the following bloggers and check out their Independence skills posts:

    Everyday Ways to Foster Independence from Mom to 2 Posh Lil Divas
    3 Independent Skills Your Child Needs for Kindergarten from Coffee Cups and Crayons
    Teaching Kids Independence: Learning How to Ask and Offer Help from Mama Smiles
    Transition Time: Teaching Kids to Successfully Move from One Activity to Another - Toddler Approved

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    1. Krissy Sherman Bonning

      June 29, 2013 at 1:11 pm

      Thanks for the reminder to work with my kiddos on these skills! I've scheduled a FB share of this awesome post for Monday, 7/1! 🙂

    2. Stephanie @ Life, Unexpectedly

      September 11, 2014 at 8:25 pm

      Those are a few very good tips! Our girls (4 and 6) are already helping a little around the house (setting tables, picking up their toys, etc.). With our older girl starting elementary school next week, we decided to start giving her an allowance along with some more duties like putting dirty dishes in the dishwasher after meals, putting the laundry in her closet, sorting her dirty clothes in the hampers.

    3. DashColton

      April 17, 2022 at 10:20 am

      thank you so much for this amazing site me and my household best-loved this content and brainstorm

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